Success Unscripted with Jessica Rivera

Ep 18. The Real Reason You’re Not Getting What You Want—Even When You Work Hard

Jessica Rivera Season 1 Episode 18

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You’re smart. You work hard.
You’ve checked the boxes, followed the rules, maybe even exceeded expectations.

So why do you still feel like something’s missing?

This episode is for the high-achievers who’ve started to question their own grind.
 The leaders who’ve hit the goals—but still feel off.

The truth:
You’re not stuck. You’re not unmotivated.
You’re just wired for avoidance—and no one taught you how to undo it.

In this no-fluff, science-backed episode of Success Unscripted, I dive into:

  • The neuroscience behind why we default to what’s familiar—even when it’s sabotaging us
  • What cognitive dissonance actually feels like in the body
  • Why your nervous system doesn’t trust you anymore
  • How self-leadership starts with the conversations you’re having with yourself
  • The high-achiever’s habit loop—and how to break it
  • The real reason your goals feel harder than they should

This isn’t a motivational talk.
This is a mirror moment—and it could change everything if you let it.

🎯 Ready to lead with power and precision?

Applications for my next Communicate to Lead cohort are now open.
This isn’t just about public speaking—it’s about leading from the inside out.

👉🏽 Apply here: https://jessicarivera.co/communicate-to-lead/
🎧 Listen now. Lead boldly. Live in alignment.


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